Monday, January 25, 2016

Milosh's first day skiing!!



This time in life is so special - studded with a bunch of firsts. Just this week was Milosh's first drum class (which went quite well - the teacher said he has a good sense of tempo). And just yesterday, he had his very first ski class with his coach daddy. He had been so excited, he had been watching videos with daddy - and was very well aware of the equipment etc - usually for adults it takes time to get familiar with the equipment, but he was straight up comfortable. Adults generally need some help to recover from the numerous falls one is sure to have on day one - but Milosh was pretty much smiling the whole time. Coach daddy had planned and lined up everything really well for Milosh's first day of skii. Even the weather was great!

It was incredibly cute looking at this tiny little person skiing down the slopes. But Milosh has a mind of his own - and within minutes of being on the baby slope, he questioned why we are not going to the big slope? He was also super adamant about doing everything himself - be it clutching his shoes on to the skis or getting up when he has fallen down.  Its an understatement to say that it was a huge contrast from my day one of skiing ;) Speaking of adamant, he once dropped his gloves - so someone else coming the same way got it for us. As you can imagine, this is much more of a favor than he can accept, so he went all the way to where the gloves were and pretended to get the gloves! Not sure if he gets this fierce independence from one of us or from his montessori school - but you can't quite miss it!

The leash was also too limiting for his free spirit. He finally allowed us to pull him up the baby slope using the leash - which was a big success (for the leash and for us). All in all he had an awesome ski experience;  he loved the free sliding and was so proud of the few times that he did not fall down! No food, water or potty for a couple of hours, he pretty much himself to a ski-till-you-drop state. Anuj worked incredibly patiently with him up and down the slope many many times :)  - Fortunately the ski place closes down and we had to leave ;)

Milosh was tired and high at the same time. We kept thinking he would sleep any minute in the car - but he did not sleep for many more hours. He was telling us how much he loved skiing, how he can't wait for the next time and how skiing and snorkeling - both start with s and end with g :) He wasn't sure if skiing is a one time activity ("I wish I would ski again") or an annual activity ("Can I skii when I turn 5") or a daily activity ("No school tomorrow, we will go skiing")! We have come a long way from the time Anuj went skiing in his jeans - all the way up the mountain on day one; to my day one when I was incredibly mad as to why Anuj got me for something like this; to ski dates while Milosh was in day care; to waiting when Milosh will be potty trained so he can start ski lessons (that was the only pre-requisite) and now almost ready to start family skiing!! Looking at his excitement I am sure he will be a better skier than me by the end of this season :)

Friday, January 1, 2016

Can I bookmark this ......pasta ....


Milosh has been learning to read! He is on to Bob books - set 2 - and is doing well and really enjoying it! Its so exciting to sit with him and watch him make the words with the sounds of the letters. Its adorable. After every word he kinda looks up to see if I am nodding or saying "mm-hmm". Once I told him he doesn't have to look up after every word - and of course his little defiant self made his subtle action of looking up more explicit and demanding.

Anyway, his reading skill makes me wonder how fast he is growing up! Very soon I will not be able to make up what the notice boards are saying in public places. In all fairness, I say whats actually written there - like - "do not climb here", "keep out" or "clean after yourself" etc - but this last week I went with Rhea and Milosh to a fare and there was a table of candies - which they of course wanted. I said look this paper here says - "not for sale". Rhea asked "where?" - I had to divert their attention because I had forgotten Rhea can read very well. Too smart for me ;))

Before long Milosh will not even need me to read books to him any more. But for now I enjoy the privilege. In fact reading before going to bed is almost ritualistic to him. He begs me to read with him, and even if I am tired I have to read (or Anuj has to). Sometimes I can use not reading as a threat so he brushes his teeth fast and comes to bed soon. Even the days that he is very tired, he will still want us to go through the motion of getting to our spot and turning on the reading light - and reading at least one page before he declares he is too tired. The current book he is reading is the entire Bob set 2 bound together (that we borrowed from the library), so he has been working on it for many days. So when he gets tired, he has learnt to put a bookmark in the book.

I can't remember when or how he picked up the concept of bookmark - I do know its fairly new. But his play on words is not new! The other day I gave him some pasta for dinner; he got through 85% of the plate and started to say he is not hungry anymore. (The rational side of me knows to let him stop there - but the pasta was too good to be thrown away :p - so I insisted he finish it up). That's when he said - can I please bookmark this pasta? I will come back to it. That totally made me crack up and I let him go :)